The perineum is the space between the anus and the scrotum, and many people love to be touched here.
Masturbation is a healthy practice and you should in no way feel ashamed for wanting to engage in it.
Try different positions Who said masturbation has to be stationary? The balls, for instance, can produce a lot of pleasure.
Sit down with a diagram of the female anatomy.
You can then rub on your clitoris or insert into your vagina for an orgasmic stimulation.
You can even set the mood by dimming the lights and lighting a few candles.