The genital decoration by scars is an ancient tradition in many cultures, both for men and women.
However, other forms are performed on people who do not give informed consent, including infants or children.
And once she had cleaned it was expected to stay that way - as she put it.
Rafael Carrion, urologist at the University of South Florida 'It's slightly longer and slightly thicker than the average male, but now it looks symmetrical, and the patient was very satisfied,' he said.
There are serious elements to the film - we constantly see Sieger punishing himself with his athletic training, his overbearing brother always in the background - but they don't overwhelm you, or steal anything from all the sweet, gentle moments.
If I am worried about boys, I should be equally worried about girls.