A female reader, , writes 1 July 2011 : I'm not really sure what to tell you on this.
Anyways, what should I do? I love this site and you will too.
People make mistakes and this sounds definitely like a major unplanned drunken one.
No one can remember what happened so try to move on and forget.
You both messed up because you both got 2 drunk.
Bottom line is that happened and there's nothing you can do about it.